Therapy for Adult Daughters of Immigrants

Virtual therapy for high-achieving women who are ready to untangle guilt, perfectionism, and the pressure to carry everything.

Providing therapy to residents of New York, Louisiana, Texas, and Oklahoma.

You’ve always been the one who holds it together.

You are accomplished, responsible, and the person others count on, and you’ve worked hard to build a meaningful life. But beneath the success, you may feel exhausted from always needing to be strong.

Maybe you struggle with guilt when you choose yourself. Maybe you feel caught between honoring your family and becoming your own person. Maybe you wonder why achieving everything you were supposed to achieve still doesn’t feel like enough.

You don’t have to keep carrying these patterns alone.

When Achievement Becomes a Way of Belonging

Many adult daughters of immigrants learn early that being successful, helpful, and responsible is a way to honor their families and protect connection.

You became the caretaker.

You became the achiever.

You learned to anticipate everyone’s needs.

You became really good at adapting, always a chameleon.

Therapy can help you understand these patterns without blaming yourself or rejecting the parts of your culture and family that matter to you.

A Space to Understand Yourself More Deeply

My approach is warm, relational, and influenced by Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment, and trauma-informed therapy. Together, we explore the parts of you that learned to survive through perfectionism, caretaking, and self-sacrifice.

You can learn to:

  • Set boundaries without being consumed by guilt

  • Understand the roots of your perfectionism

  • Reconnect with your own wants and values

  • Build a sense of identity beyond achievement

  • Create relationships that feel more balanced

Therapy That Understands Culture, Family, and Identity

As someone who has lived between cultures, I understand that identity is complex. Many clients come to therapy not because they don't love their families, but because they are trying to find a way to honor their roots while creating a life that feels authentic.

Some FAQs about therapy with me:

You have spent years taking care of others and meeting expectations. Therapy can be a space where you begin to understand yourself, honor your story, and create a life that feels like your own.

Not ready to schedule? Explore resources here.

PLEASE READ THIS INFORMATION FOR CONSUMERS IN THE STATE OF TEXAS CAREFULLY AND IN ITS ENTIRETY.

House Bill 4224 (89th Regular Session), which went into effect on September 1, 2025, requires licensees to, per Section 181.105 of the Health and Safety Code, prominently post on their website and at any facility detailed instructions for a consumer to:

  • Request the consumer’s health care records from the licensee:

    • ​All records requests must be made in writing and sent to rosette@drrosette.com or via mail (USPS, UPS, FedEx) sent to Rosette M. Elghossain, Psy.D., LLC at 5030 N. May Ave #439, Oklahoma City, OK 73112.

  • The Texas Behavioral Health Executive Council can be contacted through various modalities:

    • Website: www.bhec.texas.gov

    • In-person: 1801 Congress Ave., Ste. 7.300
      Austin, Texas 78701

    • Phone: (512) 305-7700

    • Investigations/Complaints 24-hour, toll-free system- (800) 821-3205

  • Or, through the Office of the Attorney General, file a consumer complaint